To All the Boys Who’ve “Loved” Me Before

I’m not your personal preference or sexual kink

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“We are largely invisible when it comes to politics and popular culture, yet there’s a very palpable urban myth that Asian women make better lovers than other women.”

“The everyday racism and sexism against Asian women yields deadly results, as this dehumanization creates a climate that makes violence excusable: 41 to 61 percent of Asian women report experiencing physical and/or sexual violence by an intimate partner during their lifetime. This is significantly higher than any other ethnic group.”

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Software engineer @ GitHub. Co-creator @ Haven. Passionately curious. I like to read books, make ice cream, and learn things. Chinese-Vietnamese. She/her.

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